From time immemorial, it’s been an idea buried deeply in every lady’s subconscious, that guys cheat more on ladies than the latter does on guys. If I may say, cheating is a well known virus that has eaten deep into, and eventually destroyed countless relationships to irreparable limits. One would sometimes wonder why people cheat, considering the widespread nature of the virus. While on one side of the balance guys are most accused by ladies, on the other side, ladies are most accused by the male folks. I won’t want to be the judge of this rather labyrinthine topic, as the accused in this case must always file an appeal.
The Origin.
On conceiving the idea to elucidate upon this convoluted argument, I carried out a lot of research, consulted a lot of affected persons, including couples. Some school of thought; ‘ladies’ school of thought, believe that ladies made an unequivocal decision not to lay all their eggs in one basket based on past experiences. They justify their unholy claim with the fact that they were once reserved and faithfully addicted to their partner, until their guys made them have a rethink. They trace their encounter with cheating to the day they caught their spouse pants down, and undeniably cheating on them. While some guys on the other hand, ingeminated cheating as a mode of revenge on their spouse, others are of the opinion that men are emotionally polygamous by nature. Some guys in their humble opinion, think ladies cheat more because of the way they easily cajole their victims. This dicey topic has since become a bone of contention between the male and female folks. As a guy, I want to honestly bring to your notice that I’m trying as much as possible to cast no aspersions or write out of sentiments. Some guys believe that the major reason why girls cheat is due to their numerous needs, which are insatiable. That being said, it will interest you to know that cheating in my own opinion, is evenly distributed between the males and the females. Though there are still a few decent guys around, I’ve discovered that guys especially, find it very difficult to keep a faithful relationship due to the fact that most ladies are unpredictable. My dear ladies, it will interest you to know that your perfect, handsome, angelic, trustworthy Mr charming, might have cheated on you either once or twice, or is still cheating on you. I’m so surprised at the way events has just taken a twist. I decided to carry out a fresh survey in the last ten minutes, and surprisingly, guys have admitted to being better cheats. I’m still in shock. They have willingly owned up, and have said ladies are even far better and faithful lovers. I really wonder why.
The Remedy
While it’s a house hold saying that “once a cheat, always a cheat”, most people believe they can change a cheat, and stop them from cheating. Is this really possible? I know a few men who were promiscuous bachelors, and are still promiscuous fathers. Now what can we say? Can cheating be remedied? Or is quitting such a relationship the best bet? I wouldn’t want to impose my opinion on any, but I feel some cases can be remedied. Those who cheat for lack of attention can be resolved by retracing erring steps. But for those who cheat for vain reasons, It’s a 50:50 chance of a change maybe via deliverance, repentance, life’s encounter etc. Be a faithful lover today, it starts now. Love your spouse in a thousand ways, than loving a thousand people, Love could hurt, still it’s an interesting feeling just as the world would have been boring if it were all days without nights. Never stop loving till you find your better half. Dry the tears, learn from the pains, hope for better days, and to you who’s heartbroken, love’s gon find you some day.
By prince Ehis Okoukoni okojie and friends. Much love to Ambrose Alli University Secondary School "Set of 08"
The Origin.
On conceiving the idea to elucidate upon this convoluted argument, I carried out a lot of research, consulted a lot of affected persons, including couples. Some school of thought; ‘ladies’ school of thought, believe that ladies made an unequivocal decision not to lay all their eggs in one basket based on past experiences. They justify their unholy claim with the fact that they were once reserved and faithfully addicted to their partner, until their guys made them have a rethink. They trace their encounter with cheating to the day they caught their spouse pants down, and undeniably cheating on them. While some guys on the other hand, ingeminated cheating as a mode of revenge on their spouse, others are of the opinion that men are emotionally polygamous by nature. Some guys in their humble opinion, think ladies cheat more because of the way they easily cajole their victims. This dicey topic has since become a bone of contention between the male and female folks. As a guy, I want to honestly bring to your notice that I’m trying as much as possible to cast no aspersions or write out of sentiments. Some guys believe that the major reason why girls cheat is due to their numerous needs, which are insatiable. That being said, it will interest you to know that cheating in my own opinion, is evenly distributed between the males and the females. Though there are still a few decent guys around, I’ve discovered that guys especially, find it very difficult to keep a faithful relationship due to the fact that most ladies are unpredictable. My dear ladies, it will interest you to know that your perfect, handsome, angelic, trustworthy Mr charming, might have cheated on you either once or twice, or is still cheating on you. I’m so surprised at the way events has just taken a twist. I decided to carry out a fresh survey in the last ten minutes, and surprisingly, guys have admitted to being better cheats. I’m still in shock. They have willingly owned up, and have said ladies are even far better and faithful lovers. I really wonder why.
The Remedy
While it’s a house hold saying that “once a cheat, always a cheat”, most people believe they can change a cheat, and stop them from cheating. Is this really possible? I know a few men who were promiscuous bachelors, and are still promiscuous fathers. Now what can we say? Can cheating be remedied? Or is quitting such a relationship the best bet? I wouldn’t want to impose my opinion on any, but I feel some cases can be remedied. Those who cheat for lack of attention can be resolved by retracing erring steps. But for those who cheat for vain reasons, It’s a 50:50 chance of a change maybe via deliverance, repentance, life’s encounter etc. Be a faithful lover today, it starts now. Love your spouse in a thousand ways, than loving a thousand people, Love could hurt, still it’s an interesting feeling just as the world would have been boring if it were all days without nights. Never stop loving till you find your better half. Dry the tears, learn from the pains, hope for better days, and to you who’s heartbroken, love’s gon find you some day.
By prince Ehis Okoukoni okojie and friends. Much love to Ambrose Alli University Secondary School "Set of 08"
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