Virginity as a topic can never be successfully disambiguated. While some guys are looking forward to dating or marrying a virgin, others despise the idea if marrying or even dating a vigin, while some others want to date an adventurous girl and marry a virgin.
The Confusion Explained:
Now, here's the analogy; So many guys want to date a girl who has already had sex with someone else for so many reasons. They feel sex is more enjoyable with them than with virgins who hasn't had any sexual encounter. Others feel virginity comes with long term obligations and hence do not want to be obliged to nobody. Some other guys at the same time do want to pass through the whole stressful process of disvirgining a girl considering the pains, the tears and in extreme cases, the blood. While I particularly think virgins should be respected for that single fact that they've kept it safe, it is worthy of note that it's really not all about virginity these days.
What it is all about.
Now you would want to ask me what it is all about. You will agree with me that you wouldn't want to marry an ill mannered virgin, neither would you marry a lazy virgin. Although in many cases, one girl doesn't have it all, it is important to look beyond virginity in some cases. Virgins are good as wife materials oo. Yes. But young men, why don't you like dating virgins? It will be really bad if after taking her virginity, you go ahead to disappoint her. To round it up, virginity is not a criterion for marrying a good wife. Other aspects should be well considered also. And hey, if you can't date a virgin, I see no reason looking for one to marry ooo. Shine your eyes my brothers. Life is beautiful.
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